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May 3, 2008

My Brother In Law's Story

I've been wanting to post this here for a while now, but I wanted my Brother In Law to type it up so the facts were straight. He recently put it on our family website. It's an amazing story, here it is ...

2007 brought a lot of change in our lives. I have told parts of this story to several of [the family] and it has been requested that I post the whole story. So I will.

When I graduated high school, I went to one job interview. I got the job. That was June 15, 1995. Between then and mid 2007, I had been in four different positions for the company. In 2006, I had reached the top of the ladder. I was the supervisor over all the areas that I had worked during my career there. I had several good employees under me. I was making good money, which would have only gotten better over the next several years. I was put in charge of a 3 million dollar project to build a new facility. I had arrived. I thought.

Our faith and church have always been very important to us. We had changed churches in 2006 and feeling very comfortable in the new church. We were given the opportunity to run the youth department. That had been something we had done at our old church, so we were pleased that the ministry JUST HAPPENED to become open at the right time. By the way, I don't believe in accidents, coincidence, or just happened. The Bible says "All things work together for good to them that love God and are called according to His purpose" It did not just happen, it was God's Will.

In August 2007, our church held their annual preacher's meeting called "Fishers Of Men Fellowship" Pastors from all over the state and surrounding states come to our church to hold three days of meetings. A day consists of breakfast, four different pastors preaching, lunch, four different pastors preaching, a two-hour break, supper, and a revival type service in the evening where two more pastors preach. It is a marathon of preaching, but one that I will never miss. On Thursday of the week, a preacher named Ray Ditch was asked to preach. He had recently had a stroke and was still suffering from some of the effects of that, but when he started any and all aliments were gone and he was able to preach. The sermon was 21 minutes long. In those 20 minutes, my life was forever changed. He preached on James 1:22. It says, "Be ye doer of the work and not hearers only" He said that standing idle was not acceptable. God has a will and a purpose for each of our lives and that if God is calling you to do something then you should just do it. He kept saying that just do it, just do it. He was not finished but after about 20 minutes he said the Lord was telling him to sit down and that was what he was going to do. He sat down and over the next 2 1/2 hours three other preachers spoke about "something". I don't know what they spoke about because Just Do It, Just Do It kept ringing in my mind. When the meeting broke for lunch, I went down to the altar at the front of the church and asked God a question. "Just Do What, LORD??" Over course he didn't answer but while I was still kneeling there I told the LORD something that I meant then and that I still mean now. "Whatever it is LORD that you would have me to do LORD I will do it. Whatever it is, I'm in." I literally felt something, a weight, lifted off of my shoulders. The day continued. I went to lunch and then we had four more preachers speak.

After the second session, I went home and talked with Hannah. She had no knowledge of what had gone on. I walked in and asked her a question. I said, " If the LORD calls me anywhere, are you with me?" She had the "deer in the headlight" look. Her look told me to ask the question again so I did. She said after the second attempt, Yes, she would follow wherever the LORD would call us. Then, she asked, "Why?" I feel this was important because I had committed to God without knowing what I was committing to. Hannah also had to blindly commit to me, her husband, before knowing the circumstances or "the what". God wants us to blindly commit to His calling. That is the faith the Lord wants us to have. I told Hannah what had transpired throughout the day. She asked me, " Do you know what it is?" I told that I did not but when I did I would let her know.

Early the next week I had a feeling, I guess you would call it. I felt the LORD had showed me what was going to happen. As I had promised, I went to Hannah and told her that I thought I knew what was going to happen. This is what I told her. In our church, there are three full time paid positions. One is the pastor. One is the printer at our printing ministry, and one is the principal of our Christian School. All three positions were filled and had been for years. I told Hannah that Ron would step down as printer, Mike would move from Principal to Printer, and I was going to become Principal of the school. My wife, full of faith and spiritually minded said, "Yeah Right!" I thanked her for her support and told her that was what God had showed me. Her response this time was more open-minded. She said, "We'll See."

Two days later, on Wed, Ron stood up and announced that for personal reasons he would be stepping down as printer after many years of service. Hannah looked at me dumbfounded. COINCIDENCE. Over the next month, three men of the church applied for the job of printer. Mike was not one of them.

At work, we were just finishing the building project. The hectic time was beginning to turn into a more normal routine. My job had become easier. The workload was lighter. BUT I was not happy. I had always enjoyed going to work. I took pride in my job. My philosophy was I had to be there so I might as well enjoy it. I could not explain it. I was not happy.

Through the interview process, all of the men who had applied for the printer job had decided that the job was not for them and they were not interested in the position. At the September business meeting, Mike stood up and said that he felt that God was pushing him toward taking the job as the printer. It was a push he was willing to take if the church would allow him to make the move. The church voted then that Mike would become the new printer and now the position of principal was now vacant. COINCIDENCE. Hannah was shocked. After the meeting, I immediately went to the pastor and told him that I was interested in the job of principal. His response shook me. He said, "I know."

After that conversation, I left it in God's hands. I did not ask any questions. I just waited. In November, I was called in to have a meeting with the pastor and the deacons. It was then that I realized that another man had applied for the job. I never considered not getting the job. I figured that God would work it out. At the December business meeting, the deacons recommended that I be voted into the position. The church agreed and I was to start in Jan. The next day, I done something I never thought I would do. I gave my two-week notice to take a job that paid 1/3 less and I was not only happy about it, I was elated. The unhappiness that I had felt since August had also been lifted. It was then that I remembered something that Brother Ray had said. When you are not in God's Will, you are just not happy. I realized that for 12 years, God's will had been for me to work at Orscheln and I loved it. In August 2007, His Will for me changed and I could not be happy again until I was back in His Will.

I started the job of principal on Jan 1, 2008 and I have not had a bad day at work. I love it. It has now been 5 months and the school year is winding down and I still love it. We still run the youth department and love it also. Through the summer I will work at our camps and help Mike in the print work. I will also work on the next year of school. We are remodeling a building that we will use next year for our school. The LORD is going to grow the school and we need to be prepared for that. I will also go to some training during the summer to help better equip me in the new position. Everyday the Lord gives me the strength that I need for that day. He has blessed my family and I in so many ways there is not time to type it all.

The LORD is real and wants us to help Him. We do this by committing ourselves to God before he shows us where or what He would have us to do. If you commit, God will show you things and do things in your life that you would not seem possible.

I DON'T BELIEVE IN COINCIDENCES!!

One thing I'll add that he shared with me, but didn't include here. When me met with the church leaders, they asked him if he'd been praying about this decision. His reply was "No, not at all. God told me this was what was going to happen, there didn't seem to be a point in praying about it."

May 1, 2008

Grace is Scandalous

Here's a Thinklings two-fer.

First, go read the incredible story of a man who's mother was murdered by the next door neighbor's son. What's incredible isn't the murder, it's the grace offered by the family of the victim.

Yesterday at her funeral, her son offered to pay for the defense of her killer. ... He said that he was following Jesus' teachings: loving his enemies, forgiving others, and doing unto the "least of these" as he would to Jesus. The radio host said, "Jesus is my Lord and Savior too, but all I would want is 5 minutes alone with the guy." "Yeah," Mr. Barrios said, "but you'd be doing it to Jesus."
Wow. There are only a few comments on that post, but the tone shows just how even believers can find grace scandalous and ridiculous to the point of tossing it out. Not possible or even worth considering. Except that when they need it, they're glad that Jesus offered it.

The harsh responses to the story prompted Jared to share this post on the audacity of grace which he originally wrote in the midst of a particularly hard time in his former congregation, when their popular minister was let go.

Imagine you are one of the early church's first members. You are sitting in a home with a few other believers, sharing a meal. You pray together. You sing a few Psalms. Someone recites a bit he's heard of Jesus' biography. Then someone gets up to read a letter to you from some guy named Paul.

Paul is a guy who used to go by the name Saul. It's possible he is responsible for the murder of someone you know, perhaps even your parents or one of your children. Now you have to sit and listen to someone read not just words from this guy, but instructions from this guy. Since his conversion from Christ-hating enforcer of the Law to card-carrying Jesus freak, he's not just one of your fellow Christians. He's an authority over all Christians recognized by nearly everyone.

It is possible this arrangement would not have sit well with you.

Go read them both, but if you must choose make sure you read the second one.

Grace is what makes Christianity different. It's what makes us whole. It's what makes everything OK when it absolutely shouldn't be OK. It's exactly what we need and exactly what we could never expect to receive. It's a ridiculous solution to a tragic and insurmountable problem. When all seemed absolutely lost, grace saved the day. Grace puts all the crazy endings to all action adventure movies to shame, both in it's efficacy and it's audaciousness.

We need reminded. We think too much that Christianity is a nice, straight forward religion. It's not because at its core is a God who took the audacious step of suffering Himself to redeem those who had wounded Him. It's even more scandalous than the victim's family paying the legal fees of the murderer. In our trial it's the prosecutor who dies for the defendant.

as we get older

Did you ever have a moment when life suddenly seems more real and things are put in their proper perspective? When you suddenly realize what's important and you don't want to loose the feeling, the realization?

Paul did, just about 13 hours ago, and he captured it beautifully in a poem. A snippet:

as we get older
before our eyesight fails us
let us make a pact
to glance upon each other's faces
from time to time
and to invite the memory
to sear

Go check out the whole thing.

April 30, 2008

Mark 10 - Divorce

I sat down the other day to get back to my Bible reading, but I didn't get very far. Jesus' words on divorce in the beginning of Mark 10 really made me think.

Mark 10:1-12 - Jesus in this passage gives no acceptable reason for divorce. None. Luke 16 agrees, but both Matthew 5 & Matthew 19 show Jesus making an exception for sexual immorality. Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 seems to broaden this slightly by allowing at least separation if an unbelieving spouse desires to leave the believer. Paul says the believer is no longer bound in such cases, which seems to imply that divorce is appropriate.

Today, of course, divorce happens for far more trivial reasons. Of course, there are reasons that aren't so trivial such as abuse. Was there no spousal abuse in Jesus' or Paul's day that they did not feel compelled to address it? I hardly think that's possible. So why didn't they? It seems that the abused wife would be one whom Jesus would want to protect and address, yet he did not. So we are left to search our own souls and dig through he old and new testaments to determine for ourselves what is best.

Of course then there are situations where folks divorce and then become believers. Are they given a fresh start? Does it become like they were married? A lot of questions but not many definitive answers. The new testament only covers a couple of the many scenarios we might encounter. It seems that God is content to simply state that he hold marriage in high regard and we ought to as well. We must keep that in mind as we ponder these things and sort them out as we need to.

This reminds me that Codepoke has written some good, thought provoking stuff last year on divorce. This post in particular speaks to a way to interpret Jesus' words that handles the seemingly glaring omission of abuse. The big question being - What if the recorded words of Jesus weren't his only convictions on the topic? Codepoke's post was inspired by this compelling Christianity Today article by David Instone-Brewer. He makes the argument that Jesus wasn't answering a universal 'when is divorce OK' question but rather a specific question on a specific controversial kind of divorce popular in Jesus' day called the 'any cause' divorce.

These ideas are attractive to me for the same reasons they are attractive to Codepoke. They provide compassion and a path of escape for the victims of abuse and neglect. (Read this older post from Codepoke too on how divorce might be seen, actually, as mercy from God.) Of course, that does not make it true or valid, but it does seem to mesh with our Lord's compassion shown in other areas, like the woman caught in adultery or the good Samaritan as well as the constant drumbeat of the Old Testament about caring for the neglected and outcast. Codepoke points out the same, stating that he's not yet completely comfortable with the position (or at least he wasn't last November), no matter how attractive it may be or how neatly it seems to tie up some unclear loose ends. I'd say that most Christians have found the idea that a woman cannot escape an abusive marriage unless the man cheats a little uncomfortable and frankly have looked the other way when such a woman in fact gets a divorce.

I have to say that I'm more ready than Codepoke was to accept this. It makes too much sense to me for a lot of reasons. Have a read of Codepoke's post (and the thoughtful comments as well) and the CT article and let me know what you think.

April 23, 2008

The Father In Law I Never Knew

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It's interesting how you get to see other sides of people at their funerals. Folks talk of their memories and you get to share in snippets of their lives that you weren't privy to before. Why do people tend to wait to do that until after they're gone? These two images of Maria's father struck me as two images showing sides of the guy I never knew.

When I first met him, he was in his early 60's, so in my mind he was always an older man and grey haired. The picture of this dashing man in his 30's, with the jet black hair and that pencil thin mustache caught me by surprise.

But the Robert Steeves I really wished I had known was the one in the second picture. The man standing in the prison corridor, Bible in hand. This is the minister who ran a prison ministry for 4 or 5 years in the 80's, who had an unrealized dream of a place for prisoner's families to stay when visiting. The man who opened his own home to a few of those families. I see a man with a vision, a passion and a ministry of his own.

But the man I knew didn't go to church regularly anymore. Oh, his faith was still real, I don't question that, but I wonder why the passion that would lead a man to preach in a prison wasn't there any more. He was no longer engaged in ministry the way I see him here.

I wonder what happened to that passion. Was it just the toils of aging that took it away? Was he burned out taking care of those in society who most would rather ignore? Was there no one else to share his passion and hold up his hands as he got weary? I'll never know and I never had, or took I guess, the opportunity to ask.

One thing I did know is his concern for his daughters' welfare. Each and every time we visited, from that first trip when we were either dating or engaged, as we were prepared to leave he'd shake my hand and tell me "You take good care of her now." This was no parting pleasantry, it was said with authority. Maybe it's just a trick of memory, but I remember those first few times before he really knew me, he wasn't about to release my hand until he had an acceptable answer of "I will". It was a serious question and it made an impression on me as a young man. I got the impression that there would be consequences if I failed.

Even as the years passed and he knew me better (and our daughters were born), each parting was still the same. "Take care of those girls" he'd say. The edge of his words were softened, but the seriousness was still there.

Last Wednesday, as we left Moberly MO, I felt a pang of sadness as there was no reminder to take care of these girls. But don't worry Dad, I will.

April 21, 2008

Tough Times

Sorry it's been a slow few weeks around here, it's been a challenging time for us. First, my wife's an accountant and it's been tax time, so her part time job this time of year turns into 40-50 hours per...

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April 14, 2008

Pavlov Would Be So Proud

Remember Pavlov's dog? I think Pavlov would love this mutt. I certainly do. I'm not sure if it's the engineering nerd in me or the computer nerd in me, but I think that this is awesome....

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April 7, 2008

Google Search Term

It's sometimes amusing to see the search words that bring folks to salguod.net. Not today. In my Google Analytics report this week, on the last page of six, the last entry of 50, I discovered that one person came here...

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Mark 9 - Moses & Elijah and a Convulsing Boy

Mark 9:4 - How did they know it was Moses and Elijah? Did they hear Jesus call them by name? Did Jesus introduce them? "Moses, I'd like you to meet my friends Peter, James and John. Elijah, come over here...

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April 1, 2008

Mark 8 - Feeding Another Crowd, Rebuking Peter

Mark 8:1-10 - Since there's a similar story in Mark 6, I'm sometimes tempted to think this duplicate is an error, a mistake of Mark's memory. Surely, this didn't happen twice, right? But why not? John tells us at the...

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March 30, 2008

Samich

On the way home from dinner last night I had this (paraphrased) conversation with 9 year old Audrey: Dad: I didn't see, did you finnish your sandwich? Audrey: No, it was time to go. Dad: OK Audrey: I don't each...

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March 25, 2008

Did Jesus Come toTeach us How to Live?

Daniel pointed me to this article about how more and more folks are re-making Jesus in their own image. nothing new really, folks have been re-imagining a less shocking Jesus almost since he left. It got me thinking about what...

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March 21, 2008

Good Friday

Today is Good Friday. As Jared reminds, Good Friday. We mark this day with God nailed to a tree as good. 2000 years ago, the disciples following Him did not see good in this day. They had come to Jerusalem...

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March 19, 2008

Mark 7 - Traditions, Defilement and Dogs

Mark 7:5-8 - On the surface, this seems a harsh response to a legitimate questions - Why don't you wash? Of course, the question wasn't likely that legit, considering the source. It was more an accusation - What makes you...

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March 18, 2008

Discount Tire Quietly Proclaims the Gospel

I've used Discount Tire several times over the past few years. I've bought 2 sets of tires for my van, the wheels and tires for the T'bird and just a few weeks ago a set for the Mazda. I've liked...

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